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A question for everyone.....
This blog space is too pretty to leave unattended. I have a lot to say about many issues/subjects, the deal is figuring what to write about. I have a question for everyone who reads this entry and i hope u reply with an answer. Ok...What gives you self worth?? Meaning, do u rely on others approval or validation to make ur life have importance? Of course we all do want to feel loved and feel that we belong but there r stages in life where u r alone and have to fend for urself. But how about if u r alone or feel alone. Do u not exist?? Just reply and lets see what happens. Looking forward to your comments.

February 1, 2006 | 10:40 AM

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	Drbadr February 1, 2006 \| 12:11 PM

Dear daughter I do not feel alone I find Allah always beside me salam

	Sarah February 1, 2006 \| 12:14 PM

Alhamdulilah Thats a very good thing. You are not dependent on ppl and not trying to seek their approval. Your main objectives are to please Allah. Take care...salaamz

	irina February 1, 2006 \| 3:04 PM

yes, i exist. i have no fear to be alone. i think about many things then: about myself, people, this world. in my opinion some people have an illusion that beeing with somebody means not to be alone, people believe that it helps to avoid the loneliness. it is a big illusion - even there are a lot of ppl around a person may feel alone.. and in most cases ppl have fear to be alone even for one day, even for a few hours, even for a few minuties... why? they fear themselves i guess

	Sarah February 1, 2006 \| 6:25 PM

Couldn't agree with u more You're right, what is that ppl fear about when alone even for a day? The reason y ppl who have a lot of ppl around them that still feel alone is beacuse they have high expectations of others. And when ppl don;t fullfil those expectations, they r disappointed and in turn r disappointed at themselves some how. Thats y they r dependent on others which is a bad thing because it is programed in them to have other be teh ultmate judge of weather their life is significant or not. And ur right, it's all this big illusion and paranoia.

	Desert ROSE February 2, 2006 \| 4:35 AM

nice issue ur talking about , and good answers Dr.badr and Irina ,but Dr.Badr ppl do not always think that Allah is beside them although if they did ...THEY WILL FEEL SO COMFORTABLE AND NOT IN A NEED FOR ANYONE but ofcourse we have to be sociable or let's just say it's nice to be sociable ,Irina yes that's true someone might be surrounded with alot of ppl and yet feel alone i get this feeling sometimes but only when i'm worried or sad about sth and i'm not with my best friends or close relatives ,it helps if u are with someone you like but it won't help if u were with anyone and i think that any person should depend on himself first then others and if he has faith then he would depend on God first :)

	Sarah February 5, 2006 \| 1:44 PM

True I agree, it's nice ti be sociable even if u don't feel to sometimes. I hear a lot of shy ppl complain hwo ppl think that they r snobby because they keep to themselves. I don't blame ppl for feeling that way especially if ur a new person to teh group and don't greet or say 'hi' to anyone. For me, i don't depend on ppl for much. I like to have company but if all the close ppl in my life where to disown me (has happend before) it won't bother me too much as long as i know i wasn't in teh wrong. I don;t rely on ppl to make me happy and make em feel wanted even though it's a nice feeling to have when u kno ppl want u around.

	Owais July 1, 2006 \| 4:16 PM

odd but its ME... hi new in ur company... but i geus its not an invasion coz its for everyone :) i do exsist in a form with a soul thats toooo alone... and tahts what we all have but as human i alwys wanted to have any response from outside world ...similarly for a person standing in front of mirror expecting some kind of reflection, yet im not that much fortunate to have such things always. i had many many times in my life where i was al alone .... i remember the day when i was jus 4 or 5 yrs old when 1st time i felt i came alone in this world n wil go al alone ... i cried alot till today my soul cries, but this internal fight wasn't able to succed anytime in my life to stop moving me forward coz i had wish to live n to severe....

	Owais July 1, 2006 \| 4:20 PM

lemme tel u taht wish was seeded by Allah Almighty....

	Burhan July 9, 2006 \| 8:51 AM

from a fool to feel..... importance for what! importance for others... I dont like to appear important for others, and to be dependent on others for importance....but.... What is this thing ....importance.....this is the thing that either makes us dependent on others or others on us. facts will break ppl(me) up whether ppl(I) like or not ;and ppl's(my) existence is a fact. My likeness is not important, wish of Allah is important Ya Allah! Make me free from ppl, dont make me dependent on ppl......

	Burhan July 9, 2006 \| 8:56 AM

what a strange fact.... I have to depend on u for response....u become important for me......do I like it...do I exist.... take care. Fi Amanillah

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